The honest truth was, the mobsters I had been facing were the voices and stories in my head.
I then realized that I could decide. I realized I could decide what movie played out in my mind.
I was in charge of the characters in the script.
It wasn’t the outside world that could heal me, it was what was in me all along.
I wanted to create a new movie.
One focused on moving forward.
I started asking myself questions about the future, instead of the past.
Who do I want to be?
Who do I want to become?
What do I want to do next?
Through my desperation to rebuild my life, and through my own trial and error, I finally found a way to organize my thoughts and regain control of my life.
That’s when I developed some of the tools that have become the 7 Gangsta Secrets - the basis for the Mobster to Mentor Program.
I knew it wasn’t validation from others, it wasn’t the outside world...
I learned how to switch from listening to my Inner Mobster to listening to my Inner Mentor.
This little “secret” enabled me to find peace.
I could finally sit in the moment, and be ok.
I was able to rebuild a broken relationship.
I was able to fall in love, and create a lasting partnership that has now endured for over 20 years.
I was able to launch a business that has now served thousands of people in Brooklyn and throughout the US for 23+ years.